Love doesn'T realy fade away....It's only the feeling of the first weeks that fades. It's the view through the pink, marchmellow (i spelled it wrong -.- ) mask. When you fall in love you only see the good things that your parntner has. You think that he/she is perfect and that he/she will make your live better. But after some time you'll realize that this person you *love* has some mistakes. We call it personality.....so after flying to the highest sky, we came back to earth. Thats where the quarrel and the discusions begin. And where most of the people give up. Because love isn't passive...you have to work hard on your self. And here beginns the real love. If you are able to realize that because you love the other person you have to accept him/her with all his/her mistakes. All the good things and all the things that are not so good. And when your are able to realize that you don't have to change your partner but to change yourself, than there can grow something called true love. Stop looking at your self. Love isn't taking in the first place. It's about giving.
SO If you don'T want to give than you aren't ready for love.
I think that if there are aliens out there and they are smarter then us, than they will easily learn our laguage. Maybe they've a higher developed tehchnology, and build a system that can translate every language in the universe. It's a cool idea that math could be the language of the universe..... but if it's so than I'll be hopelesly lost....(I realy s**k at math -.-)..... Hmmmmm but what if they comunicat by using a Binary system????? Or If they speak by using Musical scales???? (that would be easyer for me to learn )
I think it is important to have a passion for what your doing. And not just to dream about something, but to take the steps. But it's very sad that a lot of people who try to become *great* don't care about the people around them.....
hmmm I think greatness is a very subjective theme. What is greatnes in your eyes...money? Honour? Power? Wisdom? Satisfaction?
Another thought: To become great you have to improve yourself. So by becoming greater you will get wiser and stronger and maybe one day you realize that youre real dreams are different.