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is it love or just some admiration?



LadyFelinine

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From: Philippines
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Post #18 October 2009, 00:12 
i recently moved to manila. oh well just to find myself and work in my own. although back in bacolod, ,my hometown my family is not that poor, i just wanna try myself and be responsible. I stayed in this condominium unit shared with other people. and i met this guy. i find him very nice. and very fun to be with. hahaha. oh well. i really like this person and i'm somewhat have thoughts if i'm already into him or not.. or maybe his the closest thing from home. hehehe.. i can sense that he also like s to be with me but at the same time i can feel he has second thoughts as well.. he has this kinda cool personality but the truth is. that he his a sensitive guy inside.. i kinda notice that even just by looking each other's eyes we tend to just smile to each other.. hahaha really silly of me to think in this way.. but its true.. i dont know what he thinks because i havent asked him about my feelings yet.. anyways.. what do u think about my situation?? did u feel the same way if u have experienced this and what can u advice me to do?? he has gf and some girl also kinda likes him here.. hahaha.. dat makes the situation a little bit complicated.

Antiderivative

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Post #28 October 2009, 08:15 
I don't think that anyone here can tell you whether or not what you're feeling or experiencing with this person is love or not. Love is defined differently from person to person, you know that. However, I can say that what this is is a deep connection that you probably don't want to ruin. Whatever happens, happens for a reason.

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angeliclucero

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Post #38 October 2009, 08:22 
It is attraction only. You can't fall in love with someone you don't even know. And since he already has a girlfriend, why put yourself in a situation where someone will get hurt. You are only asking for trouble. There are plenty of guys out there. Just wait till one comes along that is unattached and you will save yourself a lot of grief.

Quitter

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Post #49 October 2009, 12:32 

Its a certainly an admiration only.Well we meet people around different walks of life and there are certain qualities which drives and inspires us towards them.But does that means that its a start point of love,certainly not. Its a human nature only that we often confuse such feelings with that of love.Well in my college life,i met a girl.we both enjoyed company of each other and used to do studies together.was that love???Nah,it was just a professional bonding and benefiting from each others intellectual abilities between both us,and to my pity certain friends took this thing to somewhat different level.And now,we both don't seem to have any contact at all about each others whereabouts.Similar other such categories of admiration do exist which are close to be considered with love and hence,bound to create chaos and confusion.Also love is something that flows out without any blockade or suppression.Between 2 living beings,leaving no provision for any outside element to come in and play.Well,sometimes certain moments come in life when we meet a certain person and wish to be with them but they began to feel doubleminded as they previously been already tied to another one and feel like inviting complications in themselves fearing about attractions another person might have developed in towards them..so the best way is to give them their space and wait for someone another else coz every soulmate of everyone is predestined in Heaven only.They can come anytime and strike your life.Just need to be patient and don't get eager or desperate.Lust to get something before its time frame has always been disastrous and futile.Human history bears testimony to this fact.

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laksh_1428

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Post #521 October 2009, 00:25 
its jst an admiration...many people say dat true love is really hard to find...it happened to me as well
and if he already has a gf..forget him..i knw its nt easy...bt try...
n dnt go on looks...looks are very deceptive...
u cant even imagine wats going on in their mind...believe me...
better avoid him...heed me...d one who looks d most innocent is d most develish from inside..
dnt attach urself to him coz wen d heart breaks, it really hurts..more dan u can imagine...
dont delay..take a decision quickly...

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