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report post Post #12 September 2008, 08:32 
I certainly will not lie. INITIALLY, it is always fun and desirable for ANYONE to date someone who is financially prosperous. However, it only takes one extremely difficult relationship with someone who is wealthy and lousy at love, to realize that money does not make the relationship successful or enjoyable. What do you say?

angeliclucero

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report post Post #22 September 2008, 15:02 
Money has nothing to do with love. Basing a relationship on wealth is only a recipe for disaster. People should learn to place less importance on what someone owns and more importance on their character. Wealth makes life easier but doesn't guarantee happiness.

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report post Post #33 September 2008, 16:22 
Just as people depend on the affection (respect) intimacy, honesty and discipline to make relationship work, it doesnt stand firmly. Why? cos i believe that although we dont place much emphasis on wealth, money forms one of the core pillars in relationship. If i come from a wealthy family, i am used to a certain lifestyle. No matter how much i wd be inlove, it would be difficult to cut off certain luxuries i enjoyed. So money would play a part for me. It's easier to adjust from poverty to richness than the vice versa.

kellyanne1993

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report post Post #43 September 2008, 21:37 
money has nothin 2 do with love. i mean
it would be great 2 be rich. but where
there is a relationship with no love
a relationship which revolves around
money is worthless because 1day that money
could run out and then what a couple that
are unhappy and misrable.left with nothin
no money or love 4 each other
What do you think????

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report post Post #52 October 2008, 07:01 

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cos i believe that although we dont place much emphasis on wealth, money forms one of the core pillars in relationship.


Hmm I guess that would depend on a couple of variables,.. like your morals and values, how you were raised ,and whether you believe sex is a commodity.

I'm really wondering do you do a credit check on guys you go out with? lol

the ways things are going nowadays it might not be a bad idea

but honestly i believe money does play a role in relationships, how much of a role depends on the people involved. Money's one of the main causes of conflict in relationships. whether it's control of the money or lack of money. so saying it has no bearing is a little naive.
most women take security into the equation of a perfect mate, and part of being secure is having enough money to live comfortable and raise a family or at least to live in the manner they have be brought up in

"Now I ain't sayin she a gold digger, but she ain't messin wit no broke ... broke" Kanye West

source http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbYU5oIs5rw

p.s.) don't date investment bankers

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report post Post #62 October 2008, 13:42 
mney shouldnt be a base of any rltionship bec.wen we base any rltionship on money it wil not be a strng one n it wil not lst long.bec mney wil come n go but cmpare 2 love it would stay n ur heart 4ever wat ever may happen.

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report post Post #710 October 2008, 02:16 
it would be nice to go out with someone with a fat bank account but money could never save your relationship once something goes wrong.
i think it would be better if me and my partner will become prosperous together by combining our efforts that way we could both realize the value of money and having each other.

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