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Teenage Women Pregnancy

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dollymixtures

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report post Post #2118 May 2008, 22:27 
As a teenager myself i understand all the consequences of teenage pregnancy Many of my friends at school have been caught pregnant and most have had to go though the painful ordeal of abortion. I do think teen pregnancy is wrong, but we all know that we were put on ths planet to do somthing in our lives and maybe to these women it is being a mother. My friend is 16 is great mum and her child is so lovely. To a certain extent i do believe that teen pregnancy is bad but after seeing a young mothers point of view it has swayed my judgement.

I believe that if the teenage has no support. ie from work, bf family ect than she should not be a mother.
However if the teenager has good parents,enough money ans support to bring the child up and is willing to be a proper parent, i agree with this.

Getting caught pregnant at a young age is not always a bad thing, yes your life my not have started properly yet but its up to the teens to figure that out for themselves, and who knows any of our children in years to come could maybe make this mistake and ther is nothing that we can do about it, its there choice and there baby. If they want to postpone there lives then so be it.

But just a polite note to the people who may disagree with what i have said, dont be to quick to judge, always look at it from both pointsof view, not just the one you think of first.

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report post Post #2218 May 2008, 22:52 
it always happens that a girl ends up pregnant...
and then when she finds out its a horror....
but if she decides to give a birth to that baby (cause its not baby's fault) then she just gets those feelings and she starts feeling that the baby she's holding is hers so...before you decide of abortion...try to think before u do it...cause first of all its not baby's fault so u can take its life just like that...and even if u do it...u'll regret for the rest of ur life...
as for myself, if something like that happens to me...i would never abort that child cause it didnt deserve it...i would give a birth to that child and if i really couldnt take care of it on my own, then i would send it to adoption home and leave it there...but i dont think i would do it cause like kids sooo much <3<3<3
so all i wanted to say is...think before u do something...u may regret for the rest of ur life

LadyFelinine

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report post Post #2315 June 2008, 10:49 
well...teenage pregnancy is a psychological and social problem and should be address inside each family...first of all if sex education is discussed much earlier in their homes by parents then i firmly believe that this can be prevented...media also has a big responsibilty over this moral problem...in this current modern world...children as young as 5 years are already exposed to sexual subjects in tv, internet, magazines and other media related mediums...parents should first educate their children before they are exposed to these things...

Rikku1984

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report post Post #2417 June 2008, 04:27 
I also have a girly friend that thought that she was pregnant.
Thank God(or what ever else)that she isn't it.
I mean she went 16 for only a half year.
And the dumbass from a guy is 36. *wanna kill this guy for this

addict071

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report post Post #2524 June 2008, 16:31 
I honestly don't see why is this topic considered a problem.. I know many happy couples who were a happyteenagepregnant couple who was condemned by family and some frustrated "moralists" whos only real problem is lack of any kind of "action"..
And now they have very healthy marriages (as much as humanly possible) as any other couple,in many cases even healthier..
For me the only problems are sociaty and families,who constantly attack and judge people in that position,and eventually make them believe that they are incompetent idiots who have just f**ked up their whole life and will never make anything out of themselves..
Pathetic..they got pragnant,so what!! Life is a fight anyway..FFS! Or why don't they just shoot themselves immediatly..right?

for_bid

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report post Post #268 July 2008, 12:38 
i really dont see how teenage pregnancy can completely be stopped. when growing up we need so much affection from the very people we hold dear to us. a high percentage of teenage mothers have very bad backgrounds ranging from rejection, poverty, split parents. several things leads to low self esteem and image and these severely influences decisions that are made. when a person life is miserable when she/he lacks love, affection. human love is so important. i suffered rejection but fortunately people i met, books i read and things that interests me were enough to serve as a wall of protection for me from boys. we cant stop teenagers from being sexually active because it comes with development in the body. Let us not be quick to judge and condemn teenagers who get pregnant. When we spend time to speak with them, we will be shocked.

xsophiexellex

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report post Post #2721 July 2008, 15:12 
Teenage Pregnancys Seem To Happen Due to Peer Presure And Loosin Your Virginity When Your Not Ready To Well Thats What I Think And Happens Where I Live I Supose If Yah Fink Yah Can Cope Wid A Kid When Yuur In Yuur Teens Fair Enuff But No One Really Wud Plan On Havin A Kid Wen Der Still Young

xxrubyskyexx2

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report post Post #2830 July 2008, 03:19 
i think that there is nothing wrong with teenage pregnancy if the couple have carefully planned it and can support them selves and the baby i think it is perfectly ok but if it is due to sum immature kids acting carelessly then i think it is wrong babies need to be cared for and if u think u can bring up a child then wors the big deal

daisuke_kaylee

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report post Post #2931 July 2008, 02:40 
Yes, referring to Post #1, one of the factors of the increment of world population is the teenage women pregnancy. Many teenagers today are easily addicted to pornography due to peer pressure and lack of sexual education from the parents. Just look in Zedge itself, Siteguards had to be elected in order to clear this site from these pornography items.

These pornography items thus leads especially males to perform sexual intercourse with their couple. This then contribute to the production of an illegal baby which increase world population. Thus, rape cases happens anywhere around the world.

Note: Exceptions for these are teenage couples who are already married, TQ.

LordOfDaFlies

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report post Post #3012 August 2008, 18:34 
Leading on from this topic, teenage pregnancy is a problem, the teen parents are not ready for the responsibility, should abortion be frowned upon, is not abortion a "cure" and is it not about choice.

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