Parents or your beloved??




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Post #6129 June 2011, 07:09
Nothing can replace our parents ... So my first preference would be my Parents....
They are our roots.... and we know that if a tree losses its roots, it dies....

My love would b my second preference..
But I must say, its a bit difficult question to answer.... we can't leave any of them..

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Post #6211 August 2011, 13:18
my parents first of course coz they are my parents : ..sure my beloved one has his own priority and i can love him more than my parents but i cant choose my parents on him

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Post #6311 June 2012, 17:22
beloved........tell me one thing.....u wanna spend your rest 30 yrs with ur mom or with your wife????
ya sure nothing can replace our mom dad....but choosing beloved doesnt make u far away from ur parents....its just u who should manage between them....



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Post #6412 June 2012, 06:28
hmmm well this is difficult situation to be in when your heart is torn in two parts... definately parents have an upperhand but i also have practical view on the same ...

Well we gals have to leave our parents home for staying with beloved eventually.. So tht doesnt make us more close to our beloved and disloyal to our parents.. so y if a guy has to change his home for his beloved would count as disloyalty??
he can also take care of both the homes with equal love and care..



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Post #6529 June 2012, 07:53
oh! : My earlier post got deleted from this thread and I have no idea why it happened? Anyways that's the way it's on Zedge

Well! coming back to topic I just wanna say that aren't ur parents your beloved ones? Both are important, but your state of mind and capablities to handle them carefully is the most important. You just cant compare/choose one of them. An intelligent and wise man always keeps this thing in mind and behave in the best way. There is no written rules and regulation for it. Actually parents are those people to whom you are already connected but ur beloved is a person with whom u created ur relation.

Truthfully, it solely depends on your relationship with your parents. If you had loving parents who stood by you thick and thin then all I say to that is your parents are your best friends and have been your whole life, your beloved is the one you have made vows with. You should always stay close to your family and your beloved should respect that but once you have grown up and married your committments and responsibilities are with your spouse while still maintaining a close relationship with your parents. However if you had a rough background with your parents and did not have a relationship with them. Then follow your heart and do right by that.

Personally I feel that both are equally important, no one has upper hand over. I would be always available for my parents and beloved



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Post #6629 September 2012, 15:56
obviously parents come first in every aspect of your life,, they bring you up, provide you with the best things possible, teach you how to deal and face with the problems you come across in your lives.,
they are truely the angels from God.,
love n respect them from your heart, n never leave a mark on their forehead.,,

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Post #6727 October 2012, 17:43
I think if u love ur parents then u will definately get ur belove d one who made only for u due to the prayers of ur's parents.Always love n respect ur parents for ur real happiness, peace of mind and soul.....

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Post #6828 October 2012, 17:09
I would say that it depends on the relationships with your parents and the person you love. I was lucky enough to meet several people in my life that were closer to me than my actual family. And those people became my new family, family that I chosen myself.



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Post #6916 November 2012, 18:57
Its seems to be tough to answer ..beacuse we dont want to lose anything among these both ...
If your parents agrees with your relationship then its nice .... agreed



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Post #7016 November 2012, 19:57
Well, I haven't a good relation with my mother, so my beloved will probably win. If it was my father, then I will prob choose him. My father and I are close even though I don't live with him. However, I think under different circumstances, you should choose your parents over your beloved, especially if YOU KNOW they are wrong.


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