I have my bluetooth places on my computer, does that mean i have bluetooth intigrated into my computer? or do i have to buy a dongle/adapter? :?

It means your computer has the Bluetooth drivers installed. its possible that you have bluetooth built in, or you have a dongle. if you have bluetooth built in you should have the blue bluetooth icon in the tray where the clock and other items are. if you require a dongle for bluetooth then that icon shouldn't be there. check to see if you have the blue icon in the corner (bottom right)

I do have this icon down the bottom of my tray, so does this mean i have bluetooth intergrated into my pc? how do i use it? i really dont know what i am doing, please help

First thing, is the blue icon showing a red "B" or white "B"?

It shows the bluetooth symbol, which is a lil blue circle and white bluetooth symbol

Okay...have you paired the phone and computer?

No, i dont know how to, are you from the uk? wouldnt it be easier if we spoke by msn messenger?

I'm not in the UK, i'm in Hong Kong. but i was born in the UK
since your Bluetooth icon is showing a white "B" its on.

on your phone, go to the bluetooth settings section and start looking for new devices (i havent been a moto user for a while so i dont remember exactly where it is)
it'll find your PC and whatever else bluetooth is in range. select your PC and choose something like "Pair with this device" or something like that. it'll ask you for a code. now turn back to your PC and on your PC you should see a response box saying your phone is trying to connect and it'll ask you to enter a passcode
enter any 4 digit code you like into the PC (i.e. 0000) and then after that, enter the same code into the phone.

after 'pairing' the devices...look for options to 'connect automatically' or 'set as authorised' so the computer and phone can connect without permission boundaries...(i.e. it wont ask you "can i connect to blah blah blah everytime")

see how u go with that...

I tried looking for devices but it didnt find anything, i kept trying and still didnt find anything so, what do i do, im not sure wheter i hav intergrated bluetooth or not, i am really confused, i will send you an email with my print screen so you can see for yourself whether i have bluetooh intergratedor not!? what is your email address, pm me!